Sitemap - 2022 - The Anxious Morning

230. You Can Handle It. You Always Do.

229. Doing The Opposite - For Now.

228. Everything Is Temporary. If We Let It Be.

227. You Can Be Afraid And Safe At The Same Time

226. Do I Really Not Care About Panic Attacks?

225. There Is No Perfect Answer For Everyone

224. From First Wave To Third

223. From Zeno of Citium To Aaron Beck

222. "I Know You Don't Like To Leave The House"

221. Embarrassment and Shame

220. Almost Nobody Believes They Can Do It.

219. When I Am Challenged - Even In Full Recovery

218. Am I Tired Or Afraid? I Can't Always Tell!

217. Revisiting Breaks And Days Off. Words I Wish I Had Not Written.

216. Hearing Your Own Name

215. When The Wins Don't Last That Long

214. That Time I Didn't Mesh With My Therapist

213. A Few Words About Hope

212. Three Hours At The Front Door

211. When You Start Asking Different Questions

210. Black (and blue) Friday

209. When Its Hard To Feel Thankful

208. How Shall We Wrap This Up?

207. Horses and Headphones

206. "We Are A Way For The Cosmos To Know Itself"

205. Therapist Vs. Coach - Part 3

204. Therapist Vs. Coach - Part 2

203. Just Do It?

202. Honky Tonk Heroes

201. Anxiety Or Excitement? Are They Related?

200. Courage, Yes. But Also, Patience.

199. Out Like A Lamb

198. Recovery Word Games: WHILE vs BUT

197. I Don't Panic Much Anymore But ....

196. Who Am I Without Anxiety?

195. Specific Exposures For Different OCD Subtypes

194. Cognitive Distortions: Personalization

193. Your Fear Wants ALL The Attention

192. Part 2 - Tips, Techniques, Steps and Programs for Getting Better

191. Tips, Techniques, Steps, and Programs For Getting Better - Part 1 of 2

190. The Back Door Spike: I'm Not Anxious Enough!

189. Sometimes The Order Matters

188. When Accepting Really Isn't

187. The Context Isn't Special

186. Everybody Is Different. Everything Is Different. All. The. Time.

185. Doesn't All This Anxiety Talk Make Drew Anxious?

184. Is Other People's Anxiety Your Anxiety?

183. Failing, Failure, and Self-Esteem

182. Yes. There Is A Lot To Learn About Recovery

181. Recovery Is Discovery By Doing

180. Self-Parenting In Recovery

179. Rock And A Hard Place

178. Thoughts On Tolerating Distress And Discomfort

177. Consistency Is Vital

176. You Don't Have To Calm Down

175. When You Can Cry .. And Kinda Like It

174. Cognitive Distortions: Emotional Reasoning

173. Acting Without Belief

172. What About Yoga?

171. Ignoring Your Anxiety?

170. Therapist vs. Coach: Part 1 - Education

169. How Can I NOT CARE About Anxiety???

168. Things I DON'T DO When Anxious

167. What Does A Non-Disordered Person Do With Anxiety?

166. Why I Need To Build Something Better

165. "It's An Awfully Risky Thing, To Live."

164. Sometimes We're Afraid To Get Better

163. Alcohol And Caffeine As Exposure Tools

162. Leaving Things Unnamed And Unknown

161. "What Have You Done For Me Lately?"

160. On Serotonin, Depression, And Chemical Imbalances

159. "Giving Myself Grace"

158. Time

157. Recovery Inside Abusive Relationships

156. "Anxiety Disorder Informed"

155. August Questions And Answers

155. A Story of Regret With A Lesson

154. Do You Have Back-To-School Anxiety?

153. Five Cheeky But Serious Questions To Ask About Your Anxiety

152. Update From A Therapist In Training

151. Why You Can't Suggest Diseases To An Anxious Person

150. Life WILL Interrupt Your Avoidance

149. Now I'm Stuck On The Fear Of ...

148. “But Anxiety IS The Bad Thing, And It Does Happen!”

147. Figuring It Out: Not All It's Cracked Up To Be

146. Why 95% Acceptance Is Not Enough

145. When "Nothing Works"

144. Assurance, Reassurance, and Checking My Blood Sugar Levels

143. Lessons On Anxiety From Stevie Nicks

142. Why Is Flooding A Bad Idea?

141. Fear Of Depression

140. I'm Making Progress, But Now I Have To ...

139. What's The Deal With Your Vagus Nerve?

138. The Fear Is The Whole Point

137. Feeling Is Not Failure

136. Are We Healing, Or Learning?

A Short Progamming Update

135. When It's Time To Take A Break

134. Anxiety Attack vs. Panic Attack

133. Do I Have To Literally Sit With My Anxiety?

132. Getting It Wrong Sometimes

131. If I Give You A Tissue ...

130. It's Not The First Minute That Matters

129. Fear Of Judgement (w/Lauren Rosen, LMFT)

128. Look Up!

127. Why Does "Regular" Anxiety Become A Nightmare So Often?

126. Recognizing "Regular" Anxiety

125. WTF Does "Be Present" Even Mean To An Anxious Mind?

124. Feeling Anxious About Being Relaxed

123. Maybe We Can Still Be Friends

122. A Letter From Your Ex...

121. My Therapist Said ...

120. Negative Bias: It's A Thing

119. Is Your OK-Ness Conditional?

118. I Can't Stop Worrying And Overthinking!

117. What Is Exposure What Is Not Exposure?

116. When Is It OK To Get Medically Checked?

115. How I Overcame My Fear Of Unintentional Suicide

114. That Time I Was Afraid I Might Accidentally Commit Suicide

113. Addressing Emetophobia (Fear Of Vomiting) In Recovery

112. Why Does Drew Always Say That No Symptom Is Special?

111. Why Google Is An AWFUL Mental Health Tool

110. Not All Questions Are Problems

109. Cognitive Distortions: All Or Nothing Thinking

108. Drag Your Thoughts Into The Cold Light Of Day

107. Why You Should Learn To Slow Down

106. Calling Out Distortions vs Soothing Fear

105. Your Panic Attacks Do Not Last For Days And Days

104. A Few Words About Response Prevention

103. What Is ERP And When Is It Used?

102. How Can You Handle Anxiety Symptoms During Exposures?

101. Anxiety Dreams

100. A Quick Reflection On 100 Editions Of The Anxious Morning

99. Some Examples of Self Care In Recovery

98. When Self Care Goes Off The Rails

97. Why Self Care Is Important

96. This Thought FEELS Important!

95. How To Stop Your Anxiety Symptoms

94. That Time I Forgot To Follow The Process

93. Is This CBT?

92. Less Active ... But More Tired?

91. When "Listening To Your Body" Goes Off The Rails

90. Perceived Limits Are Not Always Actual Limits

89. Letting Go Of The Process Itself

88. Post-Recovery Tips: Practice Good Habits

87. You Can't Hold On To Old Habits

86. When What Works For You .... Doesn't

85. My Anxiety Has Come Back! (With Joshua Fletcher)

84. The Required Boundaries Of A Social Media Creator

83. Assurance And Reassurance Are Not The Same Thing

82. But I Don't Know What I Love!

81. Post Recovery Tips: Do Things You Love

80. Failure Is Just A Series Of Actions

79. Failure Is NOT Who You Are

78. Recovery Is NOT About Being "Hardcore"

77. Common Misconceptions About Emotions

76. When Emotions Are The Feared Disaster

75. A Series Of Tiny Choices

74. A Casual Shrug Of My Shoulders

73. Anxious Thoughts Don't Have Limits

72. The Deadly Silence Of The Male Ego

71. Why ALL Must Be Welcome Here

70. How You Feel Is Not An Emergency

69 Anxiety vs. Real Emergencies

68. Stressful Times Lead To Stickier Thoughts

67. The Difference Between Social Media And Therapy

66. How Are You Feeling?

65. You Are More Than Anxiety

64. The Conflict of Authenticity In Recovery

63. Programming An Anxiety Support Robot

62. Post-Recovery Anxiety Tips: Taking Breaks

61. Start By Showing Up

60. What About Self-Soothing?

59. Habitual Soothing Of Your Anxiety

58. Nobody Is Coming To Save You

57. The Recovery "Goldilocks Zone"

56. Feeling Good or Feeling Capable?

55. When You Hope Your Dog Can Dial 9-1-1

54. Keeping A Success Journal

53. Erroneous Self-Blame In Recovery

52. "This Is Just How My Life Is"

51. Post Anxiety Recovery Tips: Recognizing Stress

50. What Is Non-Transactional Recovery?

49. How Hoping Can Become An Obstacle

48. Hope Is Not A Plan

47. Judging Everything On How You Feel

46. When The World Seems Scarier

45. Experiences Drive Good Recovery Habits

44. Do You Identify As An Anxious Person?

43. HAVING Anxiety vs EXPERIENCING Anxiety

42. How To Use (Or Throw Away) Your Fitness Watch

41. Can You Make Space For This Discomfort?

40. Seeking. Then Doing.

39. When Helping Helps The Helper

38. What Does Your Support System Look Like?

37. Post-Recovery Anxiety Tips: Slowing Down

36. Grad School Starts In One Month!

35. Nothing Is F*cked: What The Big Lebowski Can Teach Us About Irrational Fear

34. Recovery By Committee?

33. The Benefits of Monotasking

31. You Don't Want To Be Your Thoughts

31. I KNOW WHAT'S BEST FOR ME!

30. Practical Tips For Learning To Let Go

29. The Practice Of Letting Go

28. Letting Go. An Introduction.

27. Guarding, Or Hanging On?

26. All Day Anxiety

Bonus Q&A Video - Feb 5, 2022

25. Recovery Is Not Found In "Good Vibes Only"

BONUS: Who Wants To Ask Me Stuff?

24. I Am Feeling

23. I Am Thinking

22. Observing Vs. Evaluating

21. Acceptance, Compassion, and Accountability

20. On Thoughts, Feelings, and Rain Boots

19. What Is A "Bad Day Playbook"?

18. We're Not Changing Anxiety. We're Changing Ourselves

17. Long Term Suffering. Is There A Point Of No Return?

16. Are You Clinging To Labels?

15. Acceptance Is Not A Universal Life Strategy

14. Recovery Forces Our Hand

13. Misconceptions About Courage And Being Afraid

12. Exposure Therapy Might Not Be As Scary As You Think

11. People Who Need Exposure Therapy, Hate Exposure Therapy

10. Worrying Has It's Limits

9. Meditating "Against The Grain"

8. Anxiously Busy, Or Really Living?

7. Speaking Fear Vs Expressing Emotions

6. How Often Do You Speak Your Fear?

5. How My Anxiety Felt Like Failure

4. Finding Power In A Tiny Space

3. The Morning Effect

2. Does The "Ultimate" Panic Attack Exist?

1. The Worst Day Of The Year

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